#tbt Remembering God’s Faithfulness
I recently got the timehop app on my phone. It pulls from facebook statues and pictures posted in past years on that same day each time. I have really loved seeing where I was on this very day 2 years ago, 5 years ago, etc. I have also found it very helpful in cultivating a heart of gratitude. There is something about looking at the past faithfulness of God that helps us trust in His future faithfulness.
As we get closer and closer to our due date, I cannot help but be a little fearful of what could go wrong. I am thankful right now my doctor seems to think Caleb is doing great currently and a vaginal birth is still a real possibility, and also I am thankful that I will be at one of the best hospitals that has a nationally recognized cardiology department in the event of anything really scary happening with my heart, but at the same time sometimes I hear this still small voice of fear creep in- “what if your aorta tears?”…”what if something happens to Caleb?”…”what if either Caleb or I doesn’t live through this?. I am learning to quiet those voices of fear with the voice of Truth. I know I can trust God. He has been so faithful and so good to me in the past. How can I not trust Him for the future?
“The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases; His mercies are new every morning; great is Thy faithfulness. ‘The Lord is my portion,’ says my soul, ‘therefore I will hope in Him.’ The Lord is good to those who wait for Him, to the soul who seeks him.”
Lamentations 3:22-25
Today and yesterday the timehop app brought up two pictures that reminded me so much of God’s faithfulness in bringing Bryan into my life. I am so beyond thankful to call him my husband.
But two years ago, he was my new boyfriend (of about a month). We were living states and miles apart and so we would FaceTime every night. Here is one such occasion from two years ago (apparently today- which was a Tuesday then)
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| Back when B used to be in Bartlesville and when I was in the house I shared with Sarah P 🙂 |
This came up yesterday on the Timehop app- back to school flowers from 2 years ago sent to me by my amazing boyfriend. I had never had flowers sent to me before, and they made me feel extra special. It was a great way to start the school year!
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| These were the flowers that started the 4 month journey that ended with the best question ever, “Will You Marry Me?” |
Little did I know these flowers were the beginning of the Proposal. Bryan did such an amazing job planning this proposal for months. Our relationship went very fast- we met in June, were officially dating in July, he began the proposal in Aug but didn’t officially ask me to marry him until Dec. I guess we like 6 month increments in this family: we dated for 6 months then got engaged, we were engaged for 6 months and then got married, we were married for 6 months and then found out we were expecting Caleb. Life has changed so much for both of us over the past two years, and I am so beyond thankful that God worked out His plan in His timing when it came to marriage. I wrote our whole proposal story on our wedding blog, but for those of you who haven’t ever read it (and also just because I don’t know how long our wedding blog will exist or if they take those down ever so often) I decided to repost the story below:
When it happened
Saturday, December 15, 2012
How we got engaged
I am so incredibly blessed by Bryan Paul Hughes. He was so careful in his planning of the engagement and wanted to do something special and he surely succeeded. It really starts on the first day of the school year during the last week of August. Bryan sent me flowers to school (my first ever!) and the card had a really sweet message telling me he would be praying for my first day and how excited he was for the year ahead. He signed it with love and 1 Corinthians 13:1. Later on that day he told me he was taking “the first step”, and I wondered if that meant what I thought it meant (proposal?!).
From then on, when ever we would see each other (every other weekend or so) he would deliver the next verse to me in some creative way- hid me notes in my prayer journal, in my house, on the dash of my car, programmed events in my phone to pop up, texted me under a romantic bridge at the river walk in Oklahoma City, etc. So in late November when he whispered, “1 Corinthians 13:12”, I said, “Uh oh!” meaning this must be happening soon! I had a feeling he had talked to my Dad and he told me he would propose sometime during the year (meaning before January 1st). Bryan was so wonderful, but the first couple of weeks in December were really hard for me mentally (always wondering evertime we were together, “Is this the day?”, but God taught me to trust and be patient and believe that Bryan was working on a great plan and to trust him. I think this is so analogous to our walk with Christ. At times we feel He has revealed something to us and yet He isn’t coming through on His promise yet. We have to trust that God is Sovereign and good and always works according to His time table, which is so much better than ours. Although I dealt with some impatience, I knew Bryan had his reasons for waiting to propose. He wanted to make sure he had a job here in Houston before he asked for my hand and he wanted to ensure all of our immediate families could be there which are both things I greatly admire and respect. We prayed and God so graciously opened the door for him to get a job with his same company and he start December 1st! God blew us away in His provision of all things (Phil 4:19). I know I have struggled to believe that God would provide in various seasons of my life, and I also have learned that looking back at God’s faithfulness always helps me to have faith in God’s future grace; that He will continue to be faithful in all things because that is who He is.
So fast forward to December 13th, a Thursday night when my amazing roomate, Sarah insists on taking me out for a “girls dinner” to celebrate the semester of grad school ending. I reluctantly agreed, as I was thinking I needed to leave Saturday night open just in case Bryan wanted to you know, pop the question that night ;). Sarah said as a passing thought, “well we can invite Bryan too”. So later on that evening Bryan came over and Sarah asked him to dinner with us to this nice Italian place called Brio at City Centre and when he agreed, I was actually disappointed because I thought that meant there was no way we were going to get engaged that weekend. Little did I know Bryan put Sarah up to the whole thing. I even added that we could go see the Hobbit which worked perfectly with their plan.
Saturday, December 15th comes along and Bryan comes to pick me up pretty early in the morning so we can go run in the “End of the World 5K” at my high school. It was our first race together and we had so much fun! Bryan graciously ran with me the whole way (until I gave him permission to sprint at the end).
After the race we headed back to my place to get cleaned up and set out for the day. Bryan had Sarah inconspicuously choose my outfit for the evening. I suspected something may be up but then we she chose one outfit and after our roommate, Ashton came out in a dress changed her mind and said we should wear dresses and heels as an excuse to dress up I didn’t argue. And when my other sweet friend, Katie, who was also going to dinner with us, called to ask me what I was wearing I just knew that we weren’t getting engaged because if we were she wouldn’t have to call to ask me what to wear (smart move Katie!). We went Christmas shopping over near Bryan’s place and then got dressed later to meet Sarah and Katie at Brio. We enjoyed dinner and at one point Bryan disappeared for nearly 20 minutes (he went to the restroom). He was gone so long I asked Sarah and Katie if I should go check on him haha. But actually he was calling my mom and sister and making sure all the people were ready. When he came out he was quick to say let’s go because we were going to be late for the 6 pm showing of the Hobbit (or so I thought). As we were walking from one end of City Centre (side note: we had our first official date at City Centre so Bryan had a purpose in picking this place) to the other Sarah and Katie started walking very quckly and I tried to pull Bryan ahead to catch up, but he was content walking slowly and pointing out any and everything there was to look at. He was like, “oh look at the snowflakes lit up…look at that store”, etc. as he was trying to distract me from the line of people waiting!
Our friends and siblings were holding up an acronym that has become a sort of creed for our relationship. In text one day back at the beginning of August Bryan had said something like I want our relationship to always be able to be defined by “no pressure, lots of grace, lots of fun, adventures and smiles” to which we added truth later. So I said, “NPLOGLOFAST” in response and from then on we often say just parts to each other, like LOG (lots of grace) or T (truth), etc.
Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
Love never ends. As for prophecies, they will pass away; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when the perfect comes, the partial will pass away. When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I gave up childish ways. For now we see in a mirror dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I have been fully known.
So now faith, hope, and love abide, these three; but the greatest of these is love.
(1 Corinthians 13 ESV)
Each of our family members and friends stated a verse of 1 Corinthians 13 from memory. As tears filled my eyes, I listened to God’s definition of love being stated by the people I care so deeply about in this world. I didn’t truly see everyone all at once; it wasn’t until they said their verses when I was so happy and surprised to see those who were there especially those who drove far distances! (College Station, Oklahoma, Dallas and San Marcos). A few of my closest friends coulnd’t be there, but Bryan had even thought of a way to include them by having them record themselves and send a video which he played on his Ipad (he was sneaky getting his Ipad to my parent’s house and then my sister brought it) of my friends Meagan, Chrissy, Katey and Kirsten! 
After everyone said their verse the reality of what was happening began to sink in. Bryan then looked at me and said the most amazing things (which I couldn’t even remember moments later). However, my awesome man knows how much I love detail and even wrote down what he said so we would always have it to remember:
I was so overjoyed and sooooooo excited and happy! I still cannot get over the amazing gift Bryan is and how God has been so incredibly good to provide above and beyond what I could ask or imagine (Ephesians 3:20).
to receive glory and honor and power,
for you created all things,
and by your will they existed and were created.”
(Revelation 4:11 ESV)
We are so thankful God has seen fit to join our lives! And we cannot wait to begin our life together!
After the amazing proposal, I was COMPLETELY shocked (again) when we showed up to my house and were greeted with probably around 40 of our friends to celebrate with us in a surprise engagement party!
We are so thankful for the amazing support we have had from our parents and siblings and friends and are so thankful to share in joy during this special time!
So, in summary, December 15, 2013 was a day I will remember for my whole life. Thanks babe, I love you so much and you did such an exceptional job!!!!!!!
